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Thursday 13: Gradschool highs and lows

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Suggestion: Skip lines in italics. You'll get bored reading them as much as I got bored copy-pasting them from the net. (Except for International Negotiation, the rest are from the website of my alma mater)


1. Party schooling. That's how I described gradschool while chatting with a friend last night. She says she's jealous. I assure her she doesn't need to be. Medical school is a different story. "...the torture of preparing for exams, horrible memories of sleep debt," she said so herself.

2. But I know that when she says 'jealous,' it was in response to my tale of spiriting ourselves in high heels to the corner coffee shop in a BMW after doing routine research. "Coffee in medschool was a necessity, not pleasure," the poor doctor lamented.

3. My classmates and I didn't really learn much from that carefree chatter in one of Bangkok's classiest coffee shops.

4. Forget the brainwork during 1 or 2-question, 3-hour exams where you do nothing but almost cripple your fingers writing and hoping that your essay pleases the professor enough to let you pass the subject.

5. The real party to me is when overseas scientists come to the university to speak. And then it was not a party when I missed one nobel laureate's speech;

6. The leisure readings in the library and the live action right from the classrooms.

There are courses I enjoyed very much:

(Preliminary) 7. Principles of Communication

~ A study of the developments, definitions, significances and processes of communication; the factors, their form and type, which enhance or obstruct effective communication, including the consequences of communication in regards to the influence mass communication has on interpersonal communication, including the social responsibilities of mass communication and its usefulness to national development

Reception to the required paper I wrote for this course was polite but didn't wake up classmates to a debate. Only the professor was firing questions. Maybe my classmates were itching to have another cup of coffee. Coffee it was then.

8. Principles of Advertising

~ An investigation of the advertising theories and methods; the roles and influences of advertising in economic and social system; advertising planning; consumer analysis; an analysis of motivation which influence the consumer in his decision making; market research that affects advertising; selecting of media; budgeting; evaluation; laws and etiquette concerning advertising matters.

I had fun with tobacco advertising tactics. Such ads are banned in Thailand by the way.

9. Principles of Media Production

~ An introduction to the basic concepts, processes and techniques of the print and electronics media production for communication purposes, including an investigation of forms, characteristics, technology and impact with emphasis on analyzing and evaluating each medium.

We made a little movie branded by the professor as crap. "I am disappointed, class. I expected something much better," the professor declared. "Agh!" classmate Ms. Former- international-flight-attendant groaned. We braced ourselves for another reshoot.

(General Core) 10. Communication Theories and Application

~ Covering law theories, including examples from communication research. Study a variety of specific theoretical perspectives including systems theory, information theory, rules theory, and critical theory. Emphasize on the application of these theories to analyze and understand current issues of the society.

Even before gradschool or anything, I've always worried about a lawyer's final appeal to the jury when either watching it in a movie or reading about it. I always thought that if I were a lawyer, I would prefer to be the last to be heard before a verdict is reached. I couldn't verbalize an explantion but that's what's playing in my head. Meeting Recent Effects theory in this course was an affable, albeit partial solution to my crazy worry.

11. Communication, Culture and Media

~ Application of a variety of analytical/critical tools to a range of texts, including, for example, public speeches, broadcast news, television programs, films, public documents, and artifacts of popular culture and advertising.

It only made me read more about archeology.... Life.

5. Political Communication

~ Nature of communication as applied in the political contexts, along with strategies and tactics deemed effective in a variety of political campaigns. Focus on related theories and case studies.

He naturally sprung out repeatedly as example in class discussions - Thaksin Shinawatra, the premier who 'vacationed' in England while Thailand sorted a coup-de-etat. I fancied photographing those tanks. I regretted not doing so. Lazy bones had too much technological determinism in one day.

12. Relational Communication

~ Research and theory of communication in the initiation, development, maintenance, breakdown and repair of social and personal relationships; open communication and self-disclosure; communicative skills in a relationship; process models of relationships

This course was taught by Professor Beautiful: daughter of a Thai diplomat, raised in France, educated in the US; there was never a dull moment with her. She's a formidable combination of beauty and brains. It was like looking at a goddess for 3 hours once a week. I wished constant beholding was taking effect as quickly as just one term.

13. And in International Negotiation, we were given the promise of learning how to:

~ Conduct principled negotiations that result in wise agreements * Incorporate a process approach into negotiation skill set * Formulate communication strategies based on various situations * Develop a confident negotiating style to deflect "hardball" tactics * Apply psychology principles to negotiate effectively * Enhance negotiation skills by applying best practices in a real-world setting

Hardball tactics, wowowee! I'll face that only if I have to, or if forced, or coerced. Just don't forget to remember that when you are negotiating with the Japanese, never ever mention World War II.

Ayako, the Japanese classmate, smiled and nodded when asked to confirm this.

Happy Thursday, everyone :-)


Janet said…
very true, that WWII bit.
shopannies said…
oh you have been there too LOL
Beth said…
I want the Principles of Communication and Advertising. Ok pala diyan sa Thailand, banned ang tobacco advertising? Effective naman ba? :)
Hootin' Anni said…
Great post, as always. You never cease to amaze me with the mass of knowledge.

Happy Thirteening!!
I am Harriet said…
Great list!
Nice job on your TT.
Genejosh said…
balikan kita sis..I'm just too busy these days...juz want you to know I'm here...
Your list brings back memories of MY experiences in grad school ... decades ago ;--)
Hugs and blessings,
Hmmm ... methinks something went wrong with my first attempt to leave a comment ... so I'm trying again. Interesting list ... brings back memories of MY experiences in grad school decades ago.
Hugs and blessings,
Pamela Kramer said…
Ah grad school, good times. The worst was Stats! I have no idea how I passed that class.
Anya said…
Lovely written,
it brings alot of memory's back;)
Gattina said…
I didn't like school at all. Only the fun I had, lol !

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